Michael I still have books from when I had Eli...you are more than welcome to them. They don't explain it all but they do help prepare you a little. You can have them anytime.
You're going to have to run on instinct most of the time though. And seeing you with Daphne and Remy...I'm sure you'll be a great dad! You already treat those doggies like your babies so you'll be fine. Just remember not to put Alessandra in a crate!